If you share the actual post you’re referring to, I’d be glad to summarize, respond to its arguments, or help you craft a thoughtful reply.
In romantic relationships, "4getothers" can manifest as emotional unavailability or lack of empathy. When one partner forgets or neglects the other's emotions, needs, and desires, the relationship can suffer. Chronic "4getothers" can lead to feelings of isolation, disconnection, and ultimately, relationship breakdown. 4getothers